Charting the Course:
A devotion by Chuck Hall
-Bless Those Who Curse You -
I was so angry. I just couldn't believe it. How could they say those things about me? They didn't use profanity, but they cursed me nonetheless. I wanted to give them a piece of my mind, but I didn't say anything. If they only knew what I was thinking! That night I couldn't sleep. I lay in my bed, replaying in my mind what they had said and what I was going to say to them. They needed to be set straight and I was going to do it.
I struggled with my thoughts and feelings for the next several days, asking God to change my heart and help me forgive. Then one morning I read, "Bless those who curse you; pray for those who mistreat you or hurt you” (Luke 6:28 NIV). I knew the Lord was speaking to me, yet I still didn't want to pray for them. I did mumble a little prayer, but it was difficult to do. Then I thought, "Bless.” What does that mean, anyway? How can I bless someone who curses me? I learned that in this verse the word "bless" means "to speak well of, to praise, or extol.” In other words, if I bless, I will say something good about that person who cursed me.
That word bless is similar to our English word eulogy or to eulogize. Now, I've been to the funerals of a number of unsavory characters, but I never heard the preacher say anything bad about the deceased in the eulogy. Although I knew that he was stretching the truth sometimes, he still dug deeply and found some positive words to say.
Mary Nell has often told me about her Grandma Mary Lizzie. She tells me that she never heard her talk bad about people. She says that whenever people would begin to talk negatively about someone, “Miss Mary Lizzie” always said something positive and took up for the person being vilified. That's what Jesus teaches us to do.
When people say bad things to you or about you, resist the temptation to respond in anger. Say
something good about them. Remember, "A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." (Prov. 15:1 ESV) Like the preacher at the funeral, find something good to say about people, even if it is a stretch.
August 2010